Success affects everyone differently. And not necessarily in a good way. Because what it took you to become successful will not allow you to stay their for long - unless you learn to avoid these 9 common mistakes successful people commit :
- Become a defender after being a challenger : successful start-ups often enter by disrupting the status quo but when they succeed they themselves become the status quo and yet they don't realize it. Why did Apple and Google had to challenge and disrupt the BlackBerry with their new platforms : iPhone and Android platform? Because RIM itself was a disrupter but they forgot it when they began succeeding.
- Sticking to knitting when the rest of the world changes around you. When success makes the businesses rigid - and when the markets evolve rapidly around them - they often go back to "doing their basics" - what made them successful earlier - with renewed vigour. Sony CEO Howard Stringer's strategy was built around the concept of product synergy- in fact there was none.
- Losing the fear of failure. As Andy Grove of Intel said; "only the paranoids survive". Fear is a key emotion that warns you when to be alert and when you need to act. When you start to think that success is inevitable and believe you can't fail, you become reckless and take risks you shouldn't. This is the reason why mega-mergers and leveraged buy-outs failed.
- Paralyzed by the fear of losing it all . The opposite of the above is to become totally risk averse because you're afraid of losing what you've won. Nothing risked, nothing gained.
- Not listening to those who matter : When you stop asking questions and don't listen pro-actively and deeply to your key stakeholders -- customers, executives, directors, investors -- you miss critical "early warning" signs. If you do not experience minor aches and pains when they are minor, you will not need to be on a hospital bed for weeks for a major operation.
- Becoming isolated from reality : you cut yourself off from the reality through the layers of bureaucracy and hierarchy. That includes executive, suites, buildings, assistants, meetings, dinners, conferences and other filters to keep the external world out. This is the reason the rulers in the olden days used to go out among the masses incognito in the night to see what they talk and think.
- Surrounding yourself with people like you : There are always those around you to tell you what you want to hear and sugarcoat negative news for you. Keeping only the people you like creates a bias which can be fatal.
- Forgetting the "magic of the moment" factor . Do not attribute your success only to the products, materials, features. There was a "magic of the moment" too - pricing, timing, partners, even luck. The same old formula will not work because the magic of the moment will not come every time. You must actively change yourself.
- Being a one time wonder : There are many who get it right and get the funding and the stars shine bright and become "one hit wonders" . But to develop a second and a third successful product requires a willingness to embrace marketing, sales, operations, customer service and other business functions.